Hi, I'm Michelle
I've spent the last two decades teaching children, teens and adults various forms of self-expression - on a stage, with paints, at a sound meditation, through learning how to read.
In all of it, I noticed the same thing: most people want to feel seen and heard, but not everyone feels safe enough to emerge from their protective shell.
Then I found Transformational NLP. What I discovered was a relaxed way of dialoguing with a person's system - to find out what they've longed for at a core level, and what they might need to feel safe enough to move toward it. I also bring Constellations work into sessions where it fits - a method that works through family and collective patterns, not just individual ones.
I work with people across a wide range of experiences - eating and body image struggles, histories of sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts, the process of becoming more fully yourself, and those facing illness, addiction or end of life. If you've wondered whether what you're carrying is too much for this kind of work, it isn't.
All while respecting your imperfectly perfect pace.
How This works
Most approaches work on the surface — on the behaviour, the thought, the feeling. Transformational NLP goes to where the pattern started.
It identifies patterns
Patterns formed early — often before you were six — before you had the words or perspective to evaluate them. Your brain encoded them as reliable responses. By the time you're an adult, they fire automatically, faster than conscious thought. That's why thinking your way out of them rarely works.
It goes to the source
These patterns aren't stored in memory the way you'd remember a conversation. They live in the nervous system — in reflexive responses below conscious awareness. Transformational NLP locates where a pattern was originally installed and changes it there. Not by talking about it. By going directly to the source.
It keeps you in control
TNLP works with your conscious mind, not around it. You're fully present throughout — which is exactly why the update sticks. Your brain doesn't just cope differently. It actually changes.
It updates the patterns
The brain holds onto patterns because it hasn't been given a reason to change them. TNLP gives it that reason — directly, at the source. Clients describe it as the thing they'd been circling for years — suddenly just... not there.
Book a Session
Your first session is 2 hours — enough time to actually get somewhere. After that, we'll find the rhythm that works for you.
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