Hi, I'm Anita

I spent years as a world traveler and video journalist before this work found me. I was searching for a different way to live — one built on freedom, reverence, and self-direction rather than inherited ideas of what's "right."

That search led me to Transformational NLP, Family Constellations, and Holographic Constellations. What I found in these methods was something I hadn't seen elsewhere: change that happens quietly, organically, without force — when your system gets the information it was missing. Not change you have to remember. Change that's just... there.

I work with people navigating relationships, creativity, overwhelm, and self-worth. It doesn't matter what you're working on. When the pattern shifts, life starts to work differently.

    Relationships & Dating

    Confidence & Self-Worth

    Stress & Anxiety

    Family Relationships

    Career & Purpose

Anubhav Jain - NLP Grad

Certification

Holographic NLP II

24-month program

Background

World Traveler

Journalist · Artist

Location

San Ramon, CA

Sees clients globally

Sessions

Via Zoom

$125 /hour

How This works

Transformational NLP works at a different level.

Most approaches work on the surface — on the behaviour, the thought, the feeling. Transformational NLP goes to where the pattern started.

It identifies patterns

Patterns formed early — often before you were six — before you had the words or perspective to evaluate them. Your brain encoded them as reliable responses. By the time you're an adult, they fire automatically, faster than conscious thought. That's why thinking your way out of them rarely works.

It goes to the source

These patterns aren't stored in memory the way you'd remember a conversation. They live in the nervous system — in reflexive responses below conscious awareness. Transformational NLP locates where a pattern was originally installed and changes it there. Not by talking about it. By going directly to the source.

It keeps you in control

TNLP works with your conscious mind, not around it. You're fully present throughout — which is exactly why the update sticks. Your brain doesn't just cope differently. It actually changes.

It updates the patterns

The brain holds onto patterns because it hasn't been given a reason to change them. TNLP gives it that reason — directly, at the source. Clients describe it as the thing they'd been circling for years — suddenly just... not there.

Book a Session

Your first session is 2 hours — enough time to actually get somewhere. After that, we'll find the rhythm that works for you.

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First Session – Deep Dive

The first session runs up to 2 hours because that's where real transformation starts. We'll get clear on what's actually going on, what you want instead, and begin the work — not just talk about it.

120 min • $250 • Zoom

Questions?

Free Intro Call

Not sure if this is right for you? A quick, no-pressure conversation about what you're dealing with and whether working together makes sense.

20 min • Free • Zoom

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Have a question first?

Send me a message and we can figure out together whether this is the right fit before you book anything.

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In their own words

This is what the shift looks like in practice.

We worked on something that happened to me at age 5. The same situations that used to trigger overwhelm and terror in me for 60 years no longer do.

C.M.

I was skeptical going in. But from the very first conversation, Anubhav's depth of analysis and insight surprised me. A couple of sessions led to quick wins and an almost immediate impact. Highly recommended.

K.M.